• Happy Birthday MACUHO!!

    This past week I had the pleasure of celebrating in MACUHO’s 40th birthday for its annual conference!! This was my first time coming to MACUHO and boy am I glad that I went to this one. The conference this year was in Baltimore, MD and we stayed at the Tremont Plaza Hotel & Grand Historic Venue! This was the living room section of the suite that I stayed in. There was also a cute kitchenette! I was truly living the suite life on the 29th floor!!  This photo above is the hallway that connects the hotel part of the Tremont Plaza to where most of our sessions and activities were…

  • Preparing for the Next Step

    This past Friday I made a big step towards my future. I finalized my flight and hotel details for the ACPA and C3 conference in March. ACPA is American College Personnel Association. It is one of the national organizations for student affairs professionals which is what I am aspiring to be.C3 is the job placement conference associated with it. This coming year the conference is to be held in Las Vegas which is extremely exciting!! I have never been.  I am excited for the trip but nervous/anxious about what will come from it. Of course I am praying for a job so we will see what happens. When I first…

  • October – Year 2

    Hello, So I have not written in a while and there is probably much to catch up on but first let me state that this post is almost exactly a year later from my first post in this blog. I am happy to report that I am in the second year of grad school.I am quite unhappy to report that this is EHS (Exploding Head Syndrome) month and I am feeling all its effects. Since this is my second year I am involved in my program and institution, still have full time classes and an internship plus I have to begin the job search process as well as start working…

  • Late Night

    It is after 2 in the morning and I am sitting at an 24/7 Starbucks with three of my graduate friends all working on different assignments and papers. I needed a break from trying to write a lit review and a conduct program ….so I am writing a blog. Funny thing is I actually love and enjoy writing until it becomes assigned and academic. Especially in grad school with APA formatting…it gives me such an anxiety attack. Ok, I need to go back and focus because this is crunch time the semester is nearly over so let me finish off strong or nearly strong. Hope to write soon, Rena

  • Old Feelings

    So two days ago someone from my past popped back into my life and I am not sure how to deal with it.I literally haven’t heard from this person since the year began and I was ok with that but now this person is  in my head and consuming my thoughts. I thought I was done with whatever feelings I had but I guess not.I need to focus on my work (in all areas of my life) but this person and those “feelings” whatever they are/were keep coming up. I would love to bury these feelings but I thought I had and well obviously that is not working so I…

  • Birthday Month

    So as the post is titled this month is my birthday month.My birthday was actually earlier this month and I truly had a wonderful day. I had off from work and I did no school work and one of my friends took off most of the day to spend it with me. I should have posted on my birthday I would have had much more to say but I must write another post.

  • Almost at the Half Line

    It is near the end of my first year as a grad student. At this point of the semester there is so much happening and going on that I can barely keep track of the days. This semester has literally flown by and I cannot believe we are near the end of April already. It is so funny that as much time goes by two things relatively opposing ideas continue to remain true: So much has changed, while at the same time So much is still the same. A lot of the change that has occurred has to do with being in grad school and being a grad hall director. …

  • One Step At A Time

    So as a grad student I tend to have a lot on my plate. Especially with the added bonus of being a grad student pursuing a degree in College Student Affairs. For anyone who knows anything about College Student Affairs your life will constantly be busy with different projects, committees, your students, and your other co-workers. Now combine that with being a student, a daughter, a sister, and just having a life of your own.While wearing all of these different hats many of them at the same time you tend to be juggling a lot of work all the time. I recently found this article that shares or highlights tips…

  • It’s March Already?!

    It is March 2012 already… I am more than 75% done with my first year as a graduate student.  Time is literally flying by. Despite the speed at which time is going my life has been jam packed with my work as a grad student, having an internship, and field experience, as well as trying to maintain a social life.  I wish I had a bit more to say but as I mention above time is flying and there are so many things I have to do. Next week is spring break and this Friday I have to close my building for the break so hopefully after I will have…

  • Driving

    Hello all! I know I have not written in like forever and a day but I just wanted to give you an update or share a new experience that I’ve had. If you haven’t guessed by now from the title it is DRIVING!! For those that didn’t know I am from the Bronx in NYC also known as a place where having a car is sort of idiotic and pointless…you can get almost everywhere by foot, train, or bus….so recently I have a job that has required me to have a license and own a car. I have been working on this goal since about May of 2011 and as…