Time is such a strange and interesting concept. I mean, yes it is a real thing however it is so subjective and perceptive all at the same time. In the work that I do, I cannot measure it in a 40-hour work week not even a 50 or 80 hour work week….I would call it more of a 24/7 lifestyle which if you know anything about housing and residence life on a college campus that is spot on. Seriously thinking about time I am twenty something year old which is quite young if I say so myself and you think you have all the time in the world to accomplish…

I am experiencing another stage of my life and its exciting, scary, lonely, crazy, and invigorating. I started this blog on my first step of adulthood: starting college. It has been six years since that moment and now not only do I have a Bachelor’s degree but a Master’s Degree as well. It is crazy for me to fathom that sometime but I must admit I feel blessed. Upon completing my Master’s I went for a complete new start and moved literally across the country for my first full-time job. It is weird I am finally making a salary and settling into my life alone and no longer a student.…

I am a girl that has had many crushes in my lifetime so far. They are almost always different, not one like the other, and in a spare moment I started to wonder what is it about them that made them my crush. It was a host of things that drew me to each and everyone of them: sense of humor similar interests dreams and goals they had shared beliefs physical attraction their smile/lips their eyes their arms poetry skills their intellect their direct approach values they believed in familiarity comfort around them. It may be a combo of the things above that drew me to them, maybe, or maybe…

So two days ago someone from my past popped back into my life and I am not sure how to deal with it.I literally haven’t heard from this person since the year began and I was ok with that but now this person is  in my head and consuming my thoughts. I thought I was done with whatever feelings I had but I guess not.I need to focus on my work (in all areas of my life) but this person and those “feelings” whatever they are/were keep coming up. I would love to bury these feelings but I thought I had and well obviously that is not working so I…

So as the post is titled this month is my birthday month.My birthday was actually earlier this month and I truly had a wonderful day. I had off from work and I did no school work and one of my friends took off most of the day to spend it with me. I should have posted on my birthday I would have had much more to say but I must write another post.

Hello all! I know I have not written in like forever and a day but I just wanted to give you an update or share a new experience that I’ve had. If you haven’t guessed by now from the title it is DRIVING!! For those that didn’t know I am from the Bronx in NYC also known as a place where having a car is sort of idiotic and pointless…you can get almost everywhere by foot, train, or bus….so recently I have a job that has required me to have a license and own a car. I have been working on this goal since about May of 2011 and as…

As a young girl you hear a ton of stories about princesses and them finding their prince charming. Soon you start wondering what your prince will be like. You imagine everything about him…what he will look like, what kind of things he likes, what his favorite food is.. Basically everything. For some people when they become women they sometimes forget about finding their prince or have been lucky to find them. I am not sure if I met my Prince yet or not but I know for sure that I still dream about him. I dream about what he looks like, how good he can make me feel just by…